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Elder
Care Mediation
"Grampa should live in a retirement
home where he can get help if he needs it."
"No way! He wants to stay in his house, and if you'd just help him
more, he'd be fine."
What is Elder Care Mediation?
As our population ages, families are facing many challenges with
respect to elder care. Often this raises conflict within families
concerning care of loved ones. With special training in providing elder
care mediation, our elder car mediators can assist families in working
together to
develop mutually acceptable plans. In elder care mediation, the family
members, including the parents, choose who should be involved in the
discussions and the topics to be included. The elder care mediation
process
provides a safe and respectful place to have a conversation where
important information can be gathered, ideas are listened to and
agreements are worked out.
What
Kinds of Decisions Can Be Discussed?
In elder care mediation, the family may choose to discuss parental
living arrangements, health and personal care, home making and repair,
financial issues, trust and estate issues, power of attorney, as well
as relationship issues.
What are the Advantages of Elder Care Mediation?
- Parents can be involved as much as possible in
decisions.
- Finances and tasks can be divided up.
- Families can build a "custom-made" plan that works
well for them and avoid ending up in court.
- The elder care mediator will help the family to
'unblock' the
problems.
"And
it's good that we can plan ahead to go on vacation or be busy when
we're not taking our turn."
"I'm really glad you kids worked this out with me. I just didn't want
to go into a home yet."
Check
with your employer or your Employee Assistance Plan to see if funding
for elder care mediation services are available.
Suggested
Links:
www.culture.gov.on.ca/seniors
www.health.gov.on.ca
The
Mediation Centre - 46
Jackson St. East, Hamilton, Ontario, Canada L8N 1L1
Voice:
905-526-8446 | Fax: 905-526-8580 | e-mail: centre@mediation.on.ca
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